Adoption Experience
Yesterday afternoon saw the launch of my latest project – Adoption Experience www.channel4.com/adopt – this is the thinking behind it:
“Adoption is an area of childcare and family life shrouded in misconception, myth and confusion. The best way to untangle the realities from the rumours and hearsay is to focus on real people’s real experiences.
Adoption Experience shares valuable first-hand experience of Adoption from every perspective – people who have been adopted, adopters, social workers, siblings, people left in the system, potential adopters, every viewpoint that helps give insight into the realities of Adoption.”
Now those of you familiar with the peripatetic, seemingly random wanderings of my oeuvre will notice distinct similarities between Adoption Experience and Sexperience. Here was the thinking behind Sexperience:
“Sexperience enables people to share their first-hand experiences (as opposed to opinion or theory) of a broad range of sexual issues, problems and solutions in video and text form, thereby recognising the complexity and individuality of the subject through multiple perspectives and transcending the easy, often over-simplified answers of self-help manuals.”
When it came to the subject of Adoption, it struck me that the same grounded insight brought by a focus on direct experience to the realm of sex and relationships might really help to shed light through the fog of preconceptions obscuring my understanding of this other subject. For me what first sprung to mind was a nightmarish, intrusive process; social workers telling you you have too many books in your house or are too pale for your own good; a recent tale of an adoption imploding and tearing apart the family and marriage of my friend’s sister; compelling tales of retracing birth families; happy sorties filming childcare projects with Emerald Productions and ArkAngel Productions for Barnardo’s; various celebrity stories headed up by Mia Farrow (recently on hunger strike over Dafur – good on her), Angelina Jolie and Madonna; and a few lovely, sometimes quiet kids at my sons’ schools. So what I decided to do was to lift the infrastructure of Sexperience wholesale and reapply it to the subject of Adoption.
The production company/digital indie, Mint Digital, said it would probably work but they’ll be a 5% difference in the structures. I stuck to my guns that it could work as a pretty much 1-to-1 match and that’s what we went with. So, in effect, it’s my first attempt at an online format.
Now Sex is of universal relevance whereas Adoption is something of a niche concern, so I wasn’t sure what kind of take-up to expect. The signs so far are good and I feel like we’ve found our clear blue water. There’s little out there on the Web which captures first-hand experience of Adoption issues in a non-textual, engaging form. The first two hours, from a standing start, saw:
- 29,448 pageviews
- 5,578 visits
- 5.3 pageviews/visit (promising since the user-created content which drives the creative concept was very limited, starting empty that very afternoon)
- 170 experiences and questions were posted by viewers, many very illuminating and detailed
This came in unsolicited from a recent adopter today: “I think the site’s great – fantastic that it’s open to the public to post questions and responses about their experiences. This is what the adoptive and adopted audiences really need I think!”
The site was created out of the Channel 4 Cross-platform dept. as part of the Channel’s Britain’s Forgotten Children season broadcasting all this week. It springs from the themes of the documentary series Find Me a Family, commissioned by my equally mad-haired colleague Dominique Walker. This is the striking trail created by Brett Foraker of 4Creative to communicate the thrust of the season.




Comments
May 13, 2009
I have looked at the adoption website and i think you all need to know that as a person who spent 16 years in the sytem I wish you All the best, there are many children who deserve a caring home but once they hit the social service system the system is a rule until its self, i was taken away from my mother at 3.50 years old because my father commited suicide and my 3 brothers where placed in seperate foster homes, for the next 12 years I was passed from piller to post, beaten. abused taken away from my syblings and refused contact with my family and mother, fortuntely for me I joined up with my mother and family once I was abandoned at 15 and a half years from a boarding school too find my own way in life, I now have a wonderful loving relationship with my family, but it had nothing to do with the social services as they has done nothing to help me move forward in my life, i have worked at channel4 for 10 years and to be honest a lot of directors, producers and commisioning editors have no idea what there subjects goes through in life as long as it makes good vierwing figures, although some have great compassion, i feel that they have no idea exactly what they are exploring or exploting in this very sensitive and emotive subject.
I hope anybody who considers adoption understands the implications that a childs history can bring, but also the fantastic the love and security that a loving enviroment can benefit the new parents and child(s), I wish you all the best for the future
regards
c
May 14, 2009
I am stuck in a crazy catch-22 situation with trying to adopt and am hoping someone out there may have some advice for me. I can not adopt a child until I have larger accomodation and I can not be considered for a transfere from my housing association until after I have adopted. I have worked in a primary school with children who have a statement of special education needs for the past five years. I now after a year of searching, have an adoption agency wanting to proceed with my assessment. From the start I made it clear to this adoption agency that I am interested in adopting children aged up to 6 or 7 years and who have special needs. As these are the harder to place children I feel it so very tradgic that ‘the system’ is making it almost impossible for me to give a loving, stable home to one of the many children waiting for their forever family.
I feel stuck but I am determind not to give up.
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